¨Im messing around with this thottie and one thing led to another, so I know i have to smash her in the next week. My whole weekend is booked. WHat should I do for the weekend?¨
Q: I’m messing around with this thottie and one thing led to another, so know I have to smash her in the next week. My whole week is booked. What should I do for the weekend?
A: First of all, you don’t HAVE to smash. Unless the other person has told you “I want to smash,” then you smash. Otherwise, you’re just getting your hopes up. As for your weekend, just ask the other person out on a date. It doesn’t have to be super formal, just hang out and become comfortable with each other. A very important component with having sex to have trust in your partner. Also condoms. Use a condom.
Q: Hey love! I'm really interested in this guy I met online and I really want things to go somewhere but all we talk about is literature. Which is nice but I feel like I'll turn into a editor friend as opposed to a possible romantic interest. What should I do?
A: I’m really happy that you’ve met someone you really fuck with! It’s great that you have common interests like literature but maybe try a more flirtatious approach. You could ask him to go to a reading and get a cup of coffee later! Connect your common interests with date ideas. That way, you get to see him in person and relieve some of the first date awkwardness you will experience. Also since you met him online, I suggest you do a group date. You don’t know this guy besides his social media pictures and what he decides to reveal when you text. Be careful, he may not be who he portrays himself to be online. By going in a group with your friends you have backup if the date doesn’t go too well. Good luck!
Q: I've never been on a date before, what are some good ideas? How should I dress, how should I act? What do we talk about? Help??
A: Try not to overthink what you’re going to wear. You want to make a fantastic first impression, but you should still be comfortable. I know on my first date I wore ripped jeans, a black turtleneck, and just some white slip on Vans. Unless the date is something formal, keep it casual but cute. I understand that on first dates the initial conversations can be pretty dry. You can just use simple icebreakers to break free of that. Ask them where they are from, what it is it like there, do they like sports, if they do, which ones?
A: First of all, you don’t HAVE to smash. Unless the other person has told you “I want to smash,” then you smash. Otherwise, you’re just getting your hopes up. As for your weekend, just ask the other person out on a date. It doesn’t have to be super formal, just hang out and become comfortable with each other. A very important component with having sex to have trust in your partner. Also condoms. Use a condom.
Q: Hey love! I'm really interested in this guy I met online and I really want things to go somewhere but all we talk about is literature. Which is nice but I feel like I'll turn into a editor friend as opposed to a possible romantic interest. What should I do?
A: I’m really happy that you’ve met someone you really fuck with! It’s great that you have common interests like literature but maybe try a more flirtatious approach. You could ask him to go to a reading and get a cup of coffee later! Connect your common interests with date ideas. That way, you get to see him in person and relieve some of the first date awkwardness you will experience. Also since you met him online, I suggest you do a group date. You don’t know this guy besides his social media pictures and what he decides to reveal when you text. Be careful, he may not be who he portrays himself to be online. By going in a group with your friends you have backup if the date doesn’t go too well. Good luck!
Q: I've never been on a date before, what are some good ideas? How should I dress, how should I act? What do we talk about? Help??
A: Try not to overthink what you’re going to wear. You want to make a fantastic first impression, but you should still be comfortable. I know on my first date I wore ripped jeans, a black turtleneck, and just some white slip on Vans. Unless the date is something formal, keep it casual but cute. I understand that on first dates the initial conversations can be pretty dry. You can just use simple icebreakers to break free of that. Ask them where they are from, what it is it like there, do they like sports, if they do, which ones?