"Dear Drama Queen! I wanna quit my job soooo bad. But I need that $$$. Do I bear through it, or quit and be happier?" -- Drama Qu33n
I really want to learn how to break into OSA. I want to take m’lady star gazing on the roof top. Any Suggestions?
I suggest staying inside the school until it closes, and making sure you have a way out, or you’ll be trapped in and it’ll kind of be like the movie “Night At The Museum” but at an art school. Maybe the Chromebooks will come alive and write their own stories, I don’t know. Or you could camp on the roof, watch the sunset, stars, and sunrise. I suggest bringing snacks, possibly some dried mangoes. That’s my personal favorite. Or, you could go to Indian Rock, it’s better for view of the city, and the stars are lovely.
I really want to start smoking again, but I don't want my parents to get pissed, how do I bring this to them so that they know that I need it but also so I don't ruin my relationship with them?
I suggest keeping your grades up if you’re not already, keeping up with chores and just giving general respect for them for a period of time, getting your reasons and thoughts of why you’d need it, and expressing that to them. I’m sure they care about you, and if so they should respect your needs. Wanting to feel better than you do shouldn’t ruin your relationship with them. You have to think about yourself.
I love my dog so much. How do I cope with him being sad?
There will always be a being in your life who is sad. You don’t have to know how to cope with it, but you can be there for that being. What you could do now is to let him know that he is loved and eats well. He knows you love him, he just needs time to heal.
How do I deal with old faded friendships?
I believe, everyone in your life is present in a time that you need them, and present in your memory when you no longer. It’s okay to let people go, even if they’ve impacted your life in a thought shifting way. You have to learn to care about other people, without caring about them in relation to you. Meaning, they could never talk to you again, but you can still appreciate what they’ve done for you in your life, and think they’re a good person. I’m sure they still love you the same.
How the f**k do I tell what a girl is thinking when she is sending mixed messages?
Good f**king question. Your answer: I don’t f**kin’ know either! If she’s sending mixed messages, maybe that means she cares about you but doesn’t like the position you have in her life? All you can do is be persistent and make sure she knows you care about her. Work on your friendship with her before taking the next step. I’m not going to lie, I send mixed messages to people all the time, and that’s usually because I don’t know what I want. Maybe that’s it? I hope that answered your question.
What’s the best first date?
Well, it’s only going to be the best if you experience it that way, but I know that’s not what you’re asking. Honestly, just have a general plan. You could go to the woods and listen to Plantasia on full volume and dance, watch the sunset at the beach, even getting Chinese food and sitting on your family couch would be fine, as long as your conversations are nice...but that’s coming from a person who lost their virginity Bob’s Burger’s” “Sexy Dance Fighting” was on. The dance instructor was yelling “BRAZIL” and I couldn’t stay serious. Is that too much? No it isn’t. I hope you have a good first date.
What should you do when a cop shows up to a party?
Here’s a secret: Cops don’t show up to parties to arrest you if you’re trying to escape. They’re not going to chase you down over some weed and alcohol, if that’s the case, I’m assuming. Just run until you’re out of the way, and don’t get close to them and you should be fine.
Dear Drama Queen! I wanna quit my job soooo bad. But I need that $$$. Do I bear through it, or quit and be happier?
Honey, it’s better to be broke and happy rather than ballin’ and sad. It’s better to be ballin' on happiness! You have a lot of life to live, there will be more jobs, and opportunities to earn money, I promise you. Your happiness should always come first, no acceptations. Don’t do anything you don’t enjoy.
Dear Drama Queen! Am I attracted to my bestie, or am I just lonely and sexually frustrated? We’ve been friends for years, and something feels off or different lately.
This is something that I ask myself every day. Assuming that you haven’t lately, I think you should focus on yourself, and learn to enjoy your own company, before bringing another person into your life. When love arrives, you’ll know it, and It won’t hurt. I mean, you can get laid ever once in awhile because damn, some of us need that, but maybe not with your best friend. Keep them in mind, but don’t let your world revolve around them (that doesn't mean don’t let yourself love them).
School makes me feel really dumb. But recently it has been making me feel so bad that the only thing I can think about is suicide.
Yeah, I feel that. I believe that you aren’t born for a reason, so you have to make one for yourself. Get up in the morning, eat three meals a day, clean yourself, etc. Choose a meaning, and run with it. If you can’t think of one, it doesn’t mean there isn’t one. You are young, and gentle, and everyone is watching patently, excited for the person you’ll be. School is not your life. Your life, is your life. Do whatever the fuck with it, school is just something that looks damn good on a resume if you do well. So, do what you can, because that’s all you can do.
I suggest staying inside the school until it closes, and making sure you have a way out, or you’ll be trapped in and it’ll kind of be like the movie “Night At The Museum” but at an art school. Maybe the Chromebooks will come alive and write their own stories, I don’t know. Or you could camp on the roof, watch the sunset, stars, and sunrise. I suggest bringing snacks, possibly some dried mangoes. That’s my personal favorite. Or, you could go to Indian Rock, it’s better for view of the city, and the stars are lovely.
I really want to start smoking again, but I don't want my parents to get pissed, how do I bring this to them so that they know that I need it but also so I don't ruin my relationship with them?
I suggest keeping your grades up if you’re not already, keeping up with chores and just giving general respect for them for a period of time, getting your reasons and thoughts of why you’d need it, and expressing that to them. I’m sure they care about you, and if so they should respect your needs. Wanting to feel better than you do shouldn’t ruin your relationship with them. You have to think about yourself.
I love my dog so much. How do I cope with him being sad?
There will always be a being in your life who is sad. You don’t have to know how to cope with it, but you can be there for that being. What you could do now is to let him know that he is loved and eats well. He knows you love him, he just needs time to heal.
How do I deal with old faded friendships?
I believe, everyone in your life is present in a time that you need them, and present in your memory when you no longer. It’s okay to let people go, even if they’ve impacted your life in a thought shifting way. You have to learn to care about other people, without caring about them in relation to you. Meaning, they could never talk to you again, but you can still appreciate what they’ve done for you in your life, and think they’re a good person. I’m sure they still love you the same.
How the f**k do I tell what a girl is thinking when she is sending mixed messages?
Good f**king question. Your answer: I don’t f**kin’ know either! If she’s sending mixed messages, maybe that means she cares about you but doesn’t like the position you have in her life? All you can do is be persistent and make sure she knows you care about her. Work on your friendship with her before taking the next step. I’m not going to lie, I send mixed messages to people all the time, and that’s usually because I don’t know what I want. Maybe that’s it? I hope that answered your question.
What’s the best first date?
Well, it’s only going to be the best if you experience it that way, but I know that’s not what you’re asking. Honestly, just have a general plan. You could go to the woods and listen to Plantasia on full volume and dance, watch the sunset at the beach, even getting Chinese food and sitting on your family couch would be fine, as long as your conversations are nice...but that’s coming from a person who lost their virginity Bob’s Burger’s” “Sexy Dance Fighting” was on. The dance instructor was yelling “BRAZIL” and I couldn’t stay serious. Is that too much? No it isn’t. I hope you have a good first date.
What should you do when a cop shows up to a party?
Here’s a secret: Cops don’t show up to parties to arrest you if you’re trying to escape. They’re not going to chase you down over some weed and alcohol, if that’s the case, I’m assuming. Just run until you’re out of the way, and don’t get close to them and you should be fine.
Dear Drama Queen! I wanna quit my job soooo bad. But I need that $$$. Do I bear through it, or quit and be happier?
Honey, it’s better to be broke and happy rather than ballin’ and sad. It’s better to be ballin' on happiness! You have a lot of life to live, there will be more jobs, and opportunities to earn money, I promise you. Your happiness should always come first, no acceptations. Don’t do anything you don’t enjoy.
Dear Drama Queen! Am I attracted to my bestie, or am I just lonely and sexually frustrated? We’ve been friends for years, and something feels off or different lately.
This is something that I ask myself every day. Assuming that you haven’t lately, I think you should focus on yourself, and learn to enjoy your own company, before bringing another person into your life. When love arrives, you’ll know it, and It won’t hurt. I mean, you can get laid ever once in awhile because damn, some of us need that, but maybe not with your best friend. Keep them in mind, but don’t let your world revolve around them (that doesn't mean don’t let yourself love them).
School makes me feel really dumb. But recently it has been making me feel so bad that the only thing I can think about is suicide.
Yeah, I feel that. I believe that you aren’t born for a reason, so you have to make one for yourself. Get up in the morning, eat three meals a day, clean yourself, etc. Choose a meaning, and run with it. If you can’t think of one, it doesn’t mean there isn’t one. You are young, and gentle, and everyone is watching patently, excited for the person you’ll be. School is not your life. Your life, is your life. Do whatever the fuck with it, school is just something that looks damn good on a resume if you do well. So, do what you can, because that’s all you can do.